Mother’s Day tainted…

How am I suppose to enjoy Mother’s Day when I don’t feel like I can be a mum, everyone’s eyes on me the whole time the stress of knowing I’m facing court soon and still they try say I may of disgustingly put these things into my daughters head.

Child in need meeting last week due to my daughters sexualised behaviour and he was there with his mother, sitting there with his snap back backwards (not that I have a problem with them) ripped jeans and dirty trainers not once looking at the social worker not at all interested more interested at picking his nails and looking at his shoes like a prepubescent child.

Is this the man that could have contact with my child who looks like he couldn’t give two s*#ts that my precious daughter is having several different councelling sessions that my daughter has nightmares screaming most nights that my daughter is wetting her bed that HIS son sexually abused her and allowed it to happen. 

Apparently I’m not allowed to say his son has sexually abused her as it’s only alledged and not proven so says the social worker well I tell you what I believe everything that my baby has told me so yes she has been sexually abused in one of the worst ways possible!!!

Today she will get another card from wankstain pretending his a fantastic father it makes her so confused my daughter doesn’t understand how he’s nice in cards but horrible in real life “mummy why does he say nice things cos when I see him he scares me and has a angry face and says he’s going to put nails in my throat!”

This week to buy a dream catcher yes they don’t work but may help my baby think it does because she screams for him not to take her. She told me she sees him in her room and is scared to sleep she thinks he will get her, she says she hates to see her name written on the certificates in my kitchen because it has his surname on it and she wants to be the same as her “nice daddy”,

My heads frazzled I don’t want to be here I want to end it all but I can’t I have 4 kids needing me, I don’t want to do it anymore, I don’t want to fight, I don’t want the stress, I can’t cope. I want to run away. I dream of happiness.

Some days I wish she never told me I know it’s so so selfish but I was getting on with life I feel so guilty for saying that. My hearts broken and I don’t know how to fix it.

I need someone to take over I need someone to fight my corner I need someone who knows what they are doing, I don’t know what else I can do.

My daughters school told the social worker I don’t read with my daughter I went mad how even dare they,I love reading. I read daily and nightly with my babies at the minute we are reading the bfg in fact I said that school hasn’t even changed her book in months and she’s having to share my sons book. When I have so much on me how could they add to my stress I left them a disgusting letter in her filled up reading record (from me not reading to her 😡)  and I actually volunteer  and read with that bloody school and see how many parents don’t even bother once a week…. how dare they!!

You know yesterday was lovely we went to a beautiful park and lake bike riding but still even riding round there I had all this in my head, I got home bathed the kids then sobbed sobbed so hard no more tears could come. I just can’t do this no more.

The reality these days is that mothers are just not believed because of the vile women out there who do lie who are vindictive the women who are only protecting are looked upon as the same. It’s sickens me when I hear or see a mum say “he can’t see my kids he don’t pay me nothing” Do they know what they are doing to the family law systems 😡

I’m scared April 24th is nearly hear still need to earn another £2000 to pay for a barrister who actually doesn’t give a sh*# just another number to tick off there jobs list. Is there anyone out there doing it because they actually care or is it just all about money these days 😞

My eldest who’s 10 is angry he never got justice neither did my other son but luckily he’s too young to remember

I’m scared will he won’t be believed or will it be another thing for them to say I’ve made it up even though all them years back I have social services reports about the abuse on both of my sons.

I don’t even know why I write these but as I am it’s calming me down.

One day I prey for justice I prey to keep my children safe I prey I have the help and support and I prey no one will ever have to go through what my family have been.

New email address mrswrongchoice.com 

Thank you for all that have shared so far you are in my thoughts everyday and I thank you from the bottom of my heart.

All those who have shared advice 😘❤ thank you also every little helps xxxx

Fighting for justice

Who can help me? Feels like no one’s there, when you have bills in the thousands because of court proceedings when all you want to do is protect your daughter 😞

So the inevitable happened, it was only a matter of time before it would of done anyway and maybe I shouldn’t even be writing about it on here. But I need to get it out, I need to scream but I can’t!

Back in July of 2016 my daughter told me her half brother from her “father” had been sexually abusing her she’s only 6 him 9 a repeated pattern of what he done to my sons when I was with his dad.

Court never listened to me wouldn’t even entertain what he did to my boys, so he was given no extra supervision when my daughter was having contact. My daughter told her “father” what had been happening and he never stopped it, still allowed the boy to get in her bed repeatedly.

When my daughter finally told me I phoned the police and over the next couple of days she spoke to police and 2 different social workers she even expressed how unhappy and sad She was at contact and never wanted to go there her “father” scared her.

I immediately stopped contact and social services said I was well in my rights if I feel it’s unsafe environment.

He her “father” obviously took me to court and said it was all lies nothing happened how can he say my baby isn’t telling the truth 😞 My 6 year old little girl who is so innocent apparently I’m filling my babie’s head with vile stuff who in their right mind would tell children about these things.

So over a few months my daughter started showing sexualised behaviours copying what happened to her. I thought her councelling would help her but she’s needed further treatment my poor baby is having counselling at such a young age. My little girls head must be so confused.

My daughter one day broke down crying trying to tell me something she said it was about her father and looked so worried to tell me I immediately thought the worst but she told me he had threatened to put nails down her throat and leave her in the woods. I calmed her down and promised she was safe. How could anyone say something so disgusting to a little girl no wonder she was too scared to tell me what happened to her no wonder she wets the bed at night.

My baby told her teacher about it to and the social worker but still he maybe able to have contact with her.

Ive got court next month and July as he wants contact she’s told so many she doesn’t want to see him,she’s told so many how she feels but still they want her to be put with this man who has caused so much damage to her little mind. She screams at night horrendous nightmares has OCD won’t even play with her own toys they have to be in order. She’s so sad she’s not been herself since before she ever saw that man.

No ones there to help me there’s nothing I can do! I can’t save my baby. My barrister is horrendous I’m paying a man who spoke to me and my mother like a piece of crap.

My babies have all been let down by the system my baby has been hurt even though I warned the judge! It’s the justice system and the judges fault my baby got hurt he put her in that awful position.

SOMEONE OUT THERE PLEASE HELP ME I DONT KNOW WHAT ELSE TO DO!

If anyone has any advice anything at all even the tiniest thing my email address mrswrongchoice@hotmail.com

please please someone help 😞

Please share on all social media I need help 😢

http://www.thetcj.org/social-work/the-tactics-and-ploys-of-psychopath-aggressors-in-the-family-law-system

Bodily Functions……

“The average person passes gas 10 times a day, and even 20 daily toots is not deemed abnormal by the American College of Gastroenterology. Flatulence is the body’s natural way of getting rid of excess gas buildup in the intestines and bowel. The odor and noise may offend, but flatulence is a healthy bodily function, especially when you are following a nutritious diet that contains gas-producing foods such as beans, corn, broccoli, cabbage and onions. Sometimes, however, flatulence may indicate a more serious medical condition.”         http://www.livestrong.com/article/398578-is-flatulence-healthy/

At what point does flatulence become an issue and something that shouldn’t be shared with others?                                                                                                                                                          I wonder if its an offence to purposely break wind on someone?

My daughter went to visit “wankstains” last week (in fact shes actually there now) when she got home she was very sad about a numerous of things one in particular was her cries to come home were ignored 😦                                                                                                                       The next thing she was upset about was that her paternal grandfather purposely went over to her and farted on her ….. as i write this I have the biggest sick feeling inside me and anger, i know some will find it funny but my beautiful little girl shouldn’t be subject to someone being so gross. Is he that uneducated he couldn’t find something more appropriate to do with my daughter then fart on her?

All i know is my grandfather or even my own father have never once done it to me in all my 27 years (and i’m very thankful!)