Who can help me? Feels like no one’s there, when you have bills in the thousands because of court proceedings when all you want to do is protect your daughter 😞
So the inevitable happened, it was only a matter of time before it would of done anyway and maybe I shouldn’t even be writing about it on here. But I need to get it out, I need to scream but I can’t!
Back in July of 2016 my daughter told me her half brother from her “father” had been sexually abusing her she’s only 6 him 9 a repeated pattern of what he done to my sons when I was with his dad.
Court never listened to me wouldn’t even entertain what he did to my boys, so he was given no extra supervision when my daughter was having contact. My daughter told her “father” what had been happening and he never stopped it, still allowed the boy to get in her bed repeatedly.
When my daughter finally told me I phoned the police and over the next couple of days she spoke to police and 2 different social workers she even expressed how unhappy and sad She was at contact and never wanted to go there her “father” scared her.
I immediately stopped contact and social services said I was well in my rights if I feel it’s unsafe environment.
He her “father” obviously took me to court and said it was all lies nothing happened how can he say my baby isn’t telling the truth 😞 My 6 year old little girl who is so innocent apparently I’m filling my babie’s head with vile stuff who in their right mind would tell children about these things.
So over a few months my daughter started showing sexualised behaviours copying what happened to her. I thought her councelling would help her but she’s needed further treatment my poor baby is having counselling at such a young age. My little girls head must be so confused.
My daughter one day broke down crying trying to tell me something she said it was about her father and looked so worried to tell me I immediately thought the worst but she told me he had threatened to put nails down her throat and leave her in the woods. I calmed her down and promised she was safe. How could anyone say something so disgusting to a little girl no wonder she was too scared to tell me what happened to her no wonder she wets the bed at night.
My baby told her teacher about it to and the social worker but still he maybe able to have contact with her.
Ive got court next month and July as he wants contact she’s told so many she doesn’t want to see him,she’s told so many how she feels but still they want her to be put with this man who has caused so much damage to her little mind. She screams at night horrendous nightmares has OCD won’t even play with her own toys they have to be in order. She’s so sad she’s not been herself since before she ever saw that man.
No ones there to help me there’s nothing I can do! I can’t save my baby. My barrister is horrendous I’m paying a man who spoke to me and my mother like a piece of crap.
My babies have all been let down by the system my baby has been hurt even though I warned the judge! It’s the justice system and the judges fault my baby got hurt he put her in that awful position.
SOMEONE OUT THERE PLEASE HELP ME I DONT KNOW WHAT ELSE TO DO!
If anyone has any advice anything at all even the tiniest thing my email address firstname.lastname@example.org
please please someone help 😞
Please share on all social media I need help 😢